Good Boy: A Journal

June 2026

28 Sunday

  • Walks before storms

  • The sound of rain on the roof

  • Feeling all the feelings

  • Being alone

  • Loneliness

  • Finally being able to do back-squats again

  • Sam Harris


27 Saturday

  • The squirrel that sneaked a long sip out of your backyard water bowl

  • The right amount of distance

  • The calm tears that appear when you stop doing everything else

  • Nichos


25 Thursday

  • A day with fewer emails than expected

  • Sweet girls

  • Sleeping dogs

  • Perfect weather

  • When the curry chicken salad sandwich is finally in stock


24 Wednesday

  • When you hear Adele sing “Set Fire to the Rain” while you’re in the rain and fired up about a few things

  • Realizing that no one is going to save you

  • Analog scales

  • Analog pedometers

  • Your relationship with your desire

  • A dream of a beetle coming back to life

  • Historical societies


22 Monday

  • Nice clothes

  • A good doctor

  • Unexpected help

  • Leftover spaghetti


21 Sunday

  • Vaccines

  • The day after the day after getting a vaccine

  • The moment you know you you’re no longer tired

  • Green and Gold (2025)

  • Acceptance

  • Ambivalence

  • A full notebook

  • Your father


20 Saturday

  • The way good sports movies fill you up — like these two that were new to you:

    • Tommy’s Honour (2016)

    • McFarland, USA (2015)

  • The daring, young rabbit who ran in front of your moving car yesterday

  • The way you’ve started to run across the road yourself

  • Jacqueline, the nurse who made you smile while she administered your vaccine

  • Time to enjoy the space in your head


19 Friday

  • The non-human early morning activity all around you:

    • A quartet of squirrels circling your ash tree

    • A young cardinal standing sentry on a utility wire

    • Green bugs seemingly floating in the air over your shoulder

    • A rabbit that doesn’t budge while you stand near, sipping your hot cacao

    • Chirp-chirp-chirp: so much avian chatter!

  • The power of micro workouts to change your mood

  • Oatmeal with walnuts


17 Wednesday

  • The way your sometimes fumbling way with words saves you

  • The young, female cardinal who checked out the scene after a storm

  • Funerals for tree limbs

  • The trio of rabbits who greeted you on your late walk last night

  • New clothes

  • The moment you realize an old habit died — and not a moment too soon


15 Monday

  • A mowed lawn

  • A deep sleep

  • Achy exercise muscles

  • The official end of winter

  • Time for renewal

  • The secret you keep

  • The things you don’t have to say

  • A hot cup of cacao


14 Sunday

  • Dylan Harper

  • John Tortorella

  • Air squats

  • Cold coffee

  • Reading your body better

  • Printed magazines

  • Morning meditation


13 Saturday

  • Your porch

  • Perfect porch weather

  • When you make something from a disappointment

  • The quality of your inner dialogue

  • Ken Yackel West Side Arena

  • Baked potatoes


8 Monday

  • Your mistakes

  • Your fear

  • The opportunity to learn from both

  • Rainy days

  • Ice cream shops and ice cream stands


7 Sunday

  • The way your body repels the bad stuff

  • The inner voice that cuts through the grief

  • Your breath

  • Your voice

  • A new friend


6 Saturday

  • Your capacity to release that which you don’t need

  • Meghan: A kind person you found to help you do that

  • The connections you can feel if not always describe

  • The anxiety you have known that allows you to see it in others

  • Your felt sense

  • Assassin bugs


2 Tuesday

  • Hot dogs (four-legged creatures in the warm sun)

  • Assassin bugs

  • Curry quinoa salad

  • Find your way back to your heart (if not hers)


1 Monday

  • Rain on the roof at night

  • Hunger in the morning

  • Late bloomers


May 2026

31 Sunday

  • A tidy closet

  • A made bed

  • Open windows on a breezy day

  • Blue moons

  • Blue sweaters

  • Memories that remind you of who you are

  • Magnesium


30 Saturday

  • Recovery day

  • A day with a Game 7

  • A full freezer

  • Freezing-cold showers

  • Sprinklers


28 Thursday

  • Your doctor

  • Your optician

  • Your pedometer

  • Your intuition

  • Your awareness

  • Your gratitude

  • Eating oatmeal while squinting in the morning sun


27 Wednesday

  • When you’re honest

  • When you can leave words unsaid

  • When you don’t have to be right

  • When you use an opening to your advantage

  • When you don’t force it — no, no, no


26 Tuesday

  • A break-through

  • Sheena, a sweet teller

  • Lunchtime meditation reset

  • Chicken mustard sourdough sandwiches

  • The No. 26


25 Monday

  • The men and women who fought and died for democracy

  • Birds that chirp at the cemetery

  • The sun you always see there

  • Flowers found on headstones

  • Being so fired up you don’t want to go to bed

  • Positive test results

  • Chopped walnuts

  • Your father’s birth


24 Sunday

  • Hangovers in which neither drugs nor alcohol were consumed

  • How good it feels when you exercise emotional control

  • The power of your words

  • Writing alongside other writers

  • Chocolate milk in frozen mugs


23 Saturday

  • Bliss that is irresistible

  • “Irresistible Bliss” by Chris Botti

  • When a fox (wild animal) crosses your path

  • When a fox (fetching female) occupies your sphere

  • An invisible hand that rested on your chest

  • Your capacity to release


22 Friday

  • Garbage and recycling day

  • Garbage and recycling collectors

  • Neck stretches

  • Emotional stretches that show you a new way


21 Thursday

  • Challenging conversations

  • A reminder to do just one thing at a time

  • The day before the day before a long weekend

  • Dreamy moons

  • Crossing paths with Shannon, a woman with the cutest voice you have ever heard


20 Wednesday

  • Your instinct

  • The good that comes when you play a longer game

  • Your capacity to turn oatmeal into a meal


19 Tuesday

  • When the radio talks to you

  • When your best friend does

  • When your body does

  • Scrambled eggs with cheese


18 Monday

  • Rainy nights

  • Ruptures

  • Hard-boiled eggs

  • Madonna


17 Sunday

  • Doing one thing at a time

  • Working on more than one thing at a time

  • Audio visual entrainment

  • Shirtless nights

  • Solo Saturdays

  • Ceiling fans


16 Saturday

  • The end of the season

  • The release of refuse

  • A clear solar plexus

  • The repair response that follows from emotional owies

  • This sound: raaaaam


15 Friday

  • Regression

  • Agression

  • Somatic healing

  • The good that comes when you move toward calm


14 Thursday

  • Power naps

  • Your barber

  • The attitude adjustment that comes from a mid-afternoon workout

  • The thoughtful researchers who have studied suburban shopping malls

  • Milk + banana = bedtime


13 Wednesday

  • The rabbit that looks in on you

  • “The Power of Goodbye” by Madonna

  • Your history

  • Your intensity


12 Tuesday

  • Not knowing what time it is

  • Nighttime energy

  • Morning motivation

  • Body language — the self-talk version


11 Monday

  • Fresh ginger

  • Old memories

  • Early morning squint-worthy sunshine on your face


10 Sunday

  • A dream during which you play in a game with Nikita Kucherov

  • Dried lavender

  • Hourlong walks

  • The older lady whose black dog trotted alongside her, looking up, looking up, looking up, until she reached into her jacket and pulled out a treat

  • Your Mom


9 Saturday

  • When the line between the work week and the weekend is a nap

  • Late-night walks

  • Later-night self-study

  • A fresh pass at a recent dream

  • The movies your psyche shows

  • Crunchy peanut butter on sourdough toast


8 Friday

  • Dreams on different nights that comment on each other

  • Being awake before there is light

  • Being on the edge of something

  • Wolverines


7 Thursday

  • The female cardinal who greets you when it’s time to relate to your feminine side

  • The rabbit whose ears perk up when you to talk to it

  • The hawk that perches on the lamp post during your evening walk

  • Amplification

  • Grapes on sale — the red ones, of course


6 Wednesday

  • Early mornings

  • Morning sun

  • Anthony Edwards


5 Tuesday

  • Victories unexpected

  • Challenges repeated

  • The daily grind

  • The mute button

  • Your belly button


3 Sunday

  • Hourlong walks

  • Historical newspapers

  • Photographs that illuminate your experience

  • The sleep that follows a day with a lot of exercise


2 Saturday

  • Free time

  • Recovery time

  • Roast-beef sandwiches

  • Incline walks

  • Synchronous symbols of support

  • One Nation Under Goods by James J. Farrell


1 Friday

  • The flashback of a challenging feeling

  • The feeling when your NHL team plays in an overtime game in the playoffs

  • The feeling when you NHL wins an overtime game in the playoffs

  • The feeling that fills the void vacated by grief1


April 2026

30 Thursday

  • Desire

  • Satisfaction

  • The life of wanting and the death of having


28 Tuesday

  • “The Odd Couple” (original TV show)

  • The competing voices in your head

  • Rabbits that let you get close

  • When energy flows steadily (but not wildly) in one direciton


26 Sunday

  • Hourlong walks

  • Comeback victories

  • “The Comeback Kid” by The Midnight

  • Reading commitments

  • The power of literature to show you half-lived lives

  • Dubliners by James Joyce


25 Saturday

  • Your breath

  • Your heart

  • Your angst

  • Your attention

  • Your resilience

  • Your voice

  • Your capacity to be comfortable with being uncomfortable


23 Thursday

  • Birds song when it’s dark outside

  • Restlessness

  • Late walks with shorts on

  • Uncomfortable moments

  • The chance to access all the emotional tools

  • Fage lactose-free plan Greek yogurt


22 Wednesday

  • When there is no one single meaning and yet it all matters and matters a lot

  • Noise-cancelling headphones

  • Dancing alone in the living room

  • The power of push-ups

  • A Nikita Kucherov wrap-around, go-shove-it-critics, playoff game-tying goal


20 Monday

  • Your decades-long duel with your Super Ego

  • Signs that you’re winning

  • Your afternoon wrestling with James Joyce

  • Signs that you’re learning

  • Giving yourself something to look forward to


18 Saturday

  • Unexpected challenges

  • Mid-day rabbit appearances

  • The NHL playoffs

  • Treadmill time


17 Friday

  • The eEdition of the newspaper

  • When it gets dark during the day

  • Craniosacral therapy

  • Creepy nights

  • Cod


16 Thursday

  • The word “guile”

  • Running for 33 minutes

  • Sweat such that you have to change your shirt

  • The Sweathogs

  • History

  • Clarity

  • Knowing you are right and not having to say so


15 Wednesday

  • Taxes

  • Surreal sunsets

  • Seeing scheduled NHL playoff games appear on your calendar

  • The chance to talk to a Hungarian friend about this week’s Hungarian election


14 Tuesday

  • Your values

  • Your words

  • Your restraint

  • Your courage

  • Cacao


13 Monday

  • Walking to dinner at a diner

  • Walking home after

  • Navigating a new-to-you emotional space

  • Compost days

  • Flowering mornings


12 Sunday

  • Intense ambivalence

  • Over-interpretation

  • Stimulating conversation

  • Extra sleep


11 Saturday

  • Sweat

  • Small sips of coffee

  • Stoner


10 Friday

  • Inner-knowingness

  • Inner conflict

  • Those moments — in meditation, in every-day life — when you notice yourself lose your focus, for this is when the learning occurs

  • The authority to decide what is morally right to you, for you

  • A cardinal with impeccable timing


9 Thursday

  • One of those days when everything falls into place

  • A rabbit that waits for you

  • A place that calls to you

  • A golden sky


8 Wednesday

  • The good that revision does you — if you not your writing

  • The way reading about history changes your present experience

  • Being on friendly terms with more of your fragments

  • Horoscopes


7 Tuesday

  • The payoff that comes when you consider your dreams

  • The way life gives you a new chance to do right right after you did wrong

  • A squirrel standing on its hindquarters

  • The sun


6 Monday

  • The turkey you saw strutting with a full fan on Easter

  • When you realize you don’t want something you think you should want

  • The anticipation of intellectual conversation


5 Sunday

  • The eagle that flew over your house at dusk

  • The cardinal you hung out with in the evening

  • The chance to run again


4 Saturday

  • Craniosacral therapy

  • The transition from week to weekend

  • Seeing your cardinal friend first thing in the morning

  • When you’re in the mood to research

  • The Perfect Pass by S.C. Gwynne


3 Friday

  • Remembrance

  • Release

  • Rinse

  • Repeat

  • Rain


2 Thursday

  • Naps

  • Newspapers

  • New sensations


1 Wednesday

  • Resistance bands

  • Resistance strands

  • Pushing on through to the other side


March 2026


31 Tuesday

  • Birds that sing before the sun comes up

  • Squirrels that chase each other all over your yard

  • Raccoons that wrestle beneath your maple in the middle of the night


30 Monday

  • Cheeks

  • Hands

  • Your heart

  • Your gut


29 Sunday

  • Your first piece of pizza in several months

  • Your first sip of soda in several years

  • Morning clarity


28 Saturday

  • Forward: The Hidden History of Blaine by the Blaine Historical Society (2020)

  • The big dog you saw roaming free on Friday; may she have her fun, not hurt herself or anyone, and then find her way home again

  • Saturdays


27 Friday

  • When the cardinal appears at exactly the right time

  • When you recover from disappointment faster than you expected

  • Irondale Knights


26 Thursday

  • Sadness

  • Frustration

  • Death (of the emotional variety)


25 Wednesday

  • The upper-case V of geese who send you on your walk

  • The squirrel who stands up to greet you up upon your return

  • When you’re the weird one and you’re OK with that


24 Tuesday

  • The power of walking it all out

  • Biofeedback

  • Overnight oats


23 Monday

  • Being fired up

  • Honoring the let down

  • The robin who got your attention; walked with you; hung with you


22 Sunday

What a lucky guy that on the same night last night you got to watch two of your favorite artists at work — one live, the other thanks to the magic of television:

  • Master standup Jerry Seinfeld at the Orpheum Theater

  • Wizard winger Nikita Kucherov tied, who overtook, and then built on his lead over Connor McDavid for the NHL scoring race — all while playing against Connor McDavid in Connor McDavid’s team’s building


21 Saturday

  • Katy Waldman’s essay on Adam Phillips (“Listen to Yourselves”)

  • Adam Phillips’s essay on the super-ego (“Against Self-Criticism”)

  • The conversation you have with yourself

  • Stability — if you want it

  • Spring — if you’re ready or not


20 Friday

A day with all the good things:

  • Vigorous exercise

  • Reading that moved you

  • Creative time that changed you

  • A nap

  • A conversation with a person of depth

  • An evening stroll in the glowing gold setting sun

  • Observing a hawk observe the world

  • Watching Nikita Kucherov notch another three-point night


19 Thursday

  • Cold salmon

  • Fish fries

  • When you make yourself laugh — hard


18 Wednesday

  • Running free

  • Letting go

  • Sleeping hard

  • An indigo star that guides you — and watches over you


17 Tuesday

  • David Remnick’s The New Yorker essay “Listening to Joe Rogan” (February 16 & 23)

  • March snows

  • Morning reading time

  • The beginning of a new relationship with your feminine side


16 Monday

  • The good that comes from resistance training

  • The good that comes when you start all over

  • The good that comes when you reframe pain


15 Sunday

  • Your detachment

  • Your attention

  • Your imagination

  • Acceptance


14 Saturday

  • Anniversaries

  • The number 9

  • Clean sheets

  • A new (old) look

  • Your home


13 Friday

  • Your memory

  • Your heart

  • Your hunger

  • Your values

  • People who spend their time taking care of dogs without homes


12 Thursday

  • Signs of progress

  • Signs of survival

  • Almond butter + frozen blueberries


11 Wednesday

  • Turmeric

  • Ginger

  • Cinnamon


10 Tuesday

  • Opossums

  • Raccoons

  • Alligators


9 Monday

  • The doctor who listens

  • The doctor who gives you a plan

  • The doctor within


8 Sunday

  • Your struggles

  • Your triumphs

  • Your dreams — for they are something to believe in


7 Saturday

  • American Kings: A Biography of the Quarterback by Seth Wickersham

  • Saturday nights

  • A book you plow through without trying to


6 Friday

  • Setbacks

  • Comebacks

  • Take-backs

  • Backsides


5 Thursday

  • Early bedtimes

  • Your intuition


4 Wednesday

  • Arborists

  • Artists

  • Fog


3 Tuesday

  • Being a witness to a Nikita Kucherov goal

  • Being witnessed: the rabbit present when you left and when you returned

  • Late nights


2 Monday

  • The sight of a cardinal in the early evening

  • The sound of your house in early mornings

  • The feeling when you finish a long, good book


1 Sunday

  • Small connections

  • Depth conversations

  • Sourdough pasta

  • M. Somerset Maugham

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